Welcome

I'm well into my daddy years, but not as experienced as many who are half my age. I've always been open to kink, but not always knowing the right people or being in the right place at the right time has it's drawbacks.

I tend to like to get to know someone before playing. Looking for friends or FWB. Not into anonymous sex or playing with someone I'm not comfortable with.

I've always been interested in bondage, even as a young boy. Why does a 10 year old have handcuffs? Why not?

When I lived in the Los Angeles area I would go out to leather bars sometimes and met some good people. I even dated a "Master" for a while. This did little to further my exploration, as he was usually interested in watching Golden Girls in the evenings and going out to bars on weekends. Kind of 'Leather Drag' if you will. I was expecting a Master and to learn and grow. He was looking for a slave without investing in any training. The relationship ended with neither of us getting what we really wanted.

I still have a lot that I want to explore. I love leather, rubber, hoods, gags, blindfolds etc. Sensory deprivation is awesome.

I found out several years ago that I'm interested in ass play. Someone I met finally did it right and I was able to relax and enjoy the sensations.

I've put together a playroom which isn't too bad. I have more gear and toys than the average leatherman. Always looking for people to share it with.

I'm married to a vers pup who is an awesome guy and helping me to explore a bit. Always looking for others to help continue the journey. He generally does not join in with others.

My Hobbies etc

Cars & motorcycles:

I've been tinkering with cars and motorcycles since I was a teen. I love mechanical stuff. I do most of my repairs etc.

Home repairs:

I'm a jack of many trades but master of none. I'll fix things and make them better, but I'm not a pro. It's not uncommon for me to have more than one unfinished project going on.

Pets:

I'm a dog person. I've always had at least 1 dog as an adult. We currently have 3 dogs in the house. Totally spoiled rotten.

Entertainment:

I tend to like comedies and some documentaries. I like to laugh and enjoy learning about interesting things. I like the History Channel. As far as music, I tend to like mostly 80s and 90s alternative / Flashbacks.

Sexual Stuff

Limits:

Random hookups. I like to get to know someone before playing.

Scat.

Blood.

Permanent marks.

Feminine stuff.

Needles.

Heavy pain.

Smoke. Allergic

My interests:

I consider myself a bottom, so most of these interests are expressed from that perspecitve.

Bondage: Restraints, fist mitts, sleep sacks, straitjackets.

Sensory deprivation: Blindfolds, gags, sound etc.

Gear: Rubber, leather, bondage gear, sports gear, uniforms etc.

Butt play: Fingers, toys, fisting.

Cock and ball play: Squeezing, weights, pulling, sounds, catheters.

Nipple play: I like them pulled on, squeezed a bit as long as it's not on the tip.

Breath Control: I don't have a lot of expereince here, but want to explore it more. Choke holds,

Intoxication / imparement: Poppers / edibles. l don't have a lot of experience here, but I like the feeling of vulnerability.

Diapers: Not an adult baby, but can be useful with bondage. Also another element of control. No poop.

Water Sports: I haven't really explored this, but tons of guys are into it. Would like to check it out.

Wax: It's been quite some time since I've done this, but find it interesting at times.

Human Sex Map This is a really cool site where you can make your own map and add your interests.

BDSM Test Results

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Rope bunny

97% Submissive

82% Degradee

79% Brat

76% Non-monogamist

75% Primal (Prey)

68% Boy/Girl

67% Experimentalist

61% Pet

60% Voyeur

55% Ageplayer

48% Slave

44% Exhibitionist

42% Vanilla

40% Masochist

19% Switch

18% Rigger

16% Daddy/Mommy

15% Owner

12% Primal (Hunter)

8% Dominant

0% Master/Mistress

0% Degrader

0% Sadist

0% Brat tamer